MOVING ON.....2024

A Note From The Author: Jacqueline E. Hughes

I am so happy to welcome in the new year, 2024!!! My Blog is changing-up a bit....mainly because I am evolving. Travel will always take precedence in my life and, my journeys will be shared with you. This 2024 version will offer a variety of new stories and personal ideas, as well. This is all about having fun and enjoying this Beautiful Journey called......Life!!!

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Thursday, October 19, 2017

IN APPRECIATION FOR THE RHYTHM OF LIFE



A series of essays.....


DANCE TO THE RHYTHM OF LIFE
NICE, FRANCE, 2016


.....as seen through my eyes!



By: Jacqueline E. Hughes

Listen. Close your eyes and listen to the world around you. 

Are you sitting in a public park, walking around in the local mall, having a meal at your favorite restaurant, or reading the morning paper within the familiar confines of your own living room? Where you are truly does not matter! The important thing is that you are listening.

I have always found joy by listening to what is going on around me. And, when I am in my personal environment, I can be so attuned to my surroundings that an unfamiliar sound will catch my attention almost immediately. It's like an experienced mechanic who takes a customer's car for a test-drive and listens intently for inappropriate clanks, rumbles, and squeals over and above any particular complaints by the customer himself.

This morning I awoke to the slightly off-balanced clickety-clack of the ceiling fan above me; its rhythm and timing was exceptionally precise. My fingers tapped out its cadence on the folds of the crisp, white sheet.

Listen. Close your eyes and listen to the rhythm that surrounds you. What do you hear right at this very moment in time? 

The sounds around us create the patterns of regular or irregular pulses; familiar and unfamiliar within our daily routine. I've discussed before the battery powered clock that clicks its rhythmic pulses as I sit here and type each day. If it were to be taken away right now, would I be able to type at all? A familiar routine can empower us; can suck us into believing in its created normalcy, and we are programmed, after a period of time, to expect to function because of its existence. Quite often, we are not even aware of what's happening to us.

Ask a person how their day went after having to skip their daily routine at Starbucks for any reason. You may wonder if their day was compromised because of the timely loss of caffeine or the break in their morning routine. Given time, all of us become, in one form or another, creatures of habit and our 'life rhythm' holds strategic importance to our daily well-being.


PARTAKE IN THE MEAL
CALLED LIFE

When I was quite young, we would never miss the National Geographic Specials on TV, long before it had its own channel on cable television! Based upon the National Geographic Magazine, these Specials took me to places I could only dream about. But, most importantly, introduced to multiple generations, amazing lands, people, customs, and international flavors without us ever having to purchase a ticket to get there. 

I was hooked. My dear Mother knew it and, somehow, knew that subscribing to the magazine was the right thing to do. To this day, I know that the wonder of photography I discovered between those iconic yellow-outlined covers taught me to love the camera and all of its magical powers.

It was the rhythmic clicking sounds of the South African bushman tribes that lingered in my mind and made me want to so desperately visit the Continent of Africa....as I still do to this day! Like the guttural sounds of many French words that are produced in the throat and can sound harsh, the Khoisan African languages, I understood, shared click consonants and the people spoke with such a unique sound that it captured my youthful attention and curiosity.

Having read later as an adult something about the stylohyoid muscle and digastrique muscle contracting, causing the hyoid bone and the connected glottis to raise, and the forward articulation is held, raising air pressure greatly in the mouth so when the oral articulations separate, there is a dramatic burst of air and even the Adam's apple may be seen moving simultaneously. Whew!

All this didn't matter to me back then. I just wanted to listen to the clicks and clacks and watch the rhythmic flow of their colorful robes as they danced to the beat made by their staffs being pounded into the dusty, African soil. The clashing sounds of the beaded necklaces and bracelets they wore added to the glorious symphony of delights that thoroughly engulfed my senses. Such a beautiful experience this was and one I will never forget. Perhaps, one day, I will see it all up close and personal.

Last night, while sitting out on the lanai and thinking of our future move back to Michigan, I wondered about missing the familiar sound of planes coming in to land or take off from the Orlando International Airport. For twenty years their sounds have flooded my senses with various levels of rhythmic intensity. There is pure joy in watching a Virgin jumbo jet float among the clouds as it makes its approach into OIA! 

Dan and I are cultivating new rhythms associated with our lives these days in accordance with a  new lifestyle slated for less than a year from now. Until retirement is firmly set behind us, I approach our life in Michigan as seasonal rather than daily. That time will come soon enough.


SIT BACK AND JUST LISTEN

For now, it is the crisp, swirling leaves that dance dervish-like in our back yard on a windy autumn's day; the soothing crackle of a roaring fire contained within the stone fireplace one frosty winter's evening; the tingle of warmth you feel inside your heart when seeing good friends walking through a spring drizzle coming to say hello and welcome you back; and, the sounds of a summer's evening complete with the neighbor's melodic violin notes wafting like precious animated jewels out of his second story window.

I invite you to listen; check all of the senses while you observe the world around you. Delight in the beauty of the rolling hills of an Irish countryside bathed in its many shades of green. Speak to the locals of a small French village in their own language, whenever you can. Walk around the narrow streets of Paris in the evening and listen to the families having dinner; recognize their polite talk and the gentle clash of silver cutlery being rested on hand painted plates. Stroll through an open market and take in all of the aromas the local cuisine has to offer. And, feel the warmth of your lover's skin while you walk hand-in-hand along the beach as the water engulfs your feet and you sink deeper into the warm, wet sand with each step you take. 

Listen to nature's music playing all around you! Clap your hands and tap your feet as the rhythm sinks into your very core.

You get to decide which beats you wish to follow in your lifetime. But, with a stage as grand and glorious as the world we live in, it may be difficult to keep the field narrow. Wherever you go and whatever you do, always remember to take a moment to sit back, relax and appreciate the rhythm of the life going on around you.


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Tuesday, June 16, 2015

PART TWO: AN UNEXPECTED ROAD TRIP AND MORE


A series of essays.....



~WALKING THE KAL-HAVEN TRAIL~
CONNECTING KALAMAZOO TO
SOUTH HAVEN



.....as seen through my eyes!



By: Jacqueline E. Hughes


Part Two: 'An Unexpected Road Trip'

We've been home now for only seven days since unexpectedly driving back up to Michigan nearly two weeks ago! We had a date with a realtor and we kept it. You see, I had fallen in love with an adorable little house....a sweet cottage located in Kalamazoo and not far from where our daughters live.

It's insane, I know, but when I fall in love, the full weight of the euphoria hits me like a pleasant blast of mountain air and my mind begins to spin from the impact making me think and do crazy things. Previous impetuous behavior has gotten me into hot water so, I had to be cautious with the spell this house initially cast upon me.

MIKE

My belief was that if I could possibly get Dan up to see this 'little gem' for himself, well, I might just be able to convince him that it was the right step towards our future. How could this trip even be a possibility with his busy schedule at work and the fact that we'd both been up to Michigan to visit the kids within the last month? Somehow, we worked it out and thus began our road trip up to see Mike from Berkshire Hathaway Home Services and actually walk through the cottage with my husband.

When it comes to business, Dan does not 'wear his heart on his sleeve' as I tend to do.....with him being the practical one and me the dreamer. Within the capacity of being a builder himself, Dan inspected every crevice, crack, and corner of this adorable, 1941, structure while listening for creaks and groans and things that might go bump in the night or day! He was very thorough!

CUTENESS ON DECK!

Yes, he did find some issues.....like I mentioned before, the previous owners throughout the years enjoyed the protection this lovely, little home gave them from the elements. However, they neglected to emphasize the sheer beauty of this petite structure and forgot to polish it via practical upkeep, every now and again, so that her luster would shine strong and bright. After all....she is a real gem!

We talked for hours afterwards, weighed the facts and tossed about all of the pros and cons. I was smitten. Dan was working on it.


By that evening we were once again asking the kids if they thought this particular house was a good idea and decided to test-drive it out with the grandchildren. Bringing them over was such an unexpected  treat. They especially enjoyed running up and down the hill in the backyard, finding golf balls hidden in the tall grass (the lot backs-up to a golf course), and hiding in the bedroom closets as the echoes of their laughter drifted throughout the little house. Yep! This pretty much did it for us!! By Friday morning we were placing an offer on the table. After several negotiations, with my capable husband holding-on strong to his beliefs, our offer was accepted!

Late Saturday morning, the day after our victory dance, we were saying good-bye once again and tucking ourselves into the KIA for the trip back home to Orlando. It was a total whirlwind but with pleasant results to savor that made the drive home much more palatable.

ROLLING INTO ATLANTA
HEADING HOME

As I sat snuggled in my seat watching the world fly by us at eighty-miles an hour, it was comforting to reflect upon our lives up to this point and feel such amazing joy and pride. We have a beautiful, healthy family who, like so many others, are living in the moment and embracing the thrills of existence and the struggles of growth... together. Just like sitting in the sturdy, little vehicle that encapsulated us as we traveled down the super highway, our lives zoom by fast and furious and there's absolutely nothing tangible that can slow the momentum.....

TAKING STEPS INTO THE FUTURE

One road trip down since discovering more about what lies ahead for us. I can only imagine how many more will be written into our future. But, there is satisfaction in knowing that each one brings us closer and closer to.....Home!


Copyright © 2015 by Jacqueline E. Hughes
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Thursday, October 9, 2014

JOURNEY INTO THE FUTURE

 A series of essays.....



The Art of Downtown Waynesville, North Carolina


.....as seen through my eyes!

By: Jacqueline E. Hughes


Her name is Kaye Matthews, a classically beautiful lady with a kind face, soft eyes and a smile as wide and charming as the State of North Carolina itself!  We had never met before.....until fate brought us together one crisp, sunny morning while walking in downtown Waynesville.....oh, just last Saturday!


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Our Land.....Fairytale Setting
Last time, Dear Reader, I wrote about time shifting in the mists, changing shapes like a spirit holding your hand, guiding you along its dreamlike path.  The only other place on earth  we have ever experienced this magical enchantment was in Ireland.  The allure of both Western North Carolina and Ireland can be found in their extreme beauty!  The kind of beauty that clutches at your heart and squeezes it affectionately until it literally begins to take your breath away.  I often compare this feeling with the act of looking at my grandchildren's faces and wishing to breathe their very existence into my soul as though they consisted of sweet vapor created as an elixir guaranteed to enchant me forever!

Do you have children and grandchildren, nieces and nephews?  Ah, then you do know what I am talking about....

Arriving at our motel quite late Friday night inhibited us from doing anything more than sleep.  Judging by the six handsome Harley-Davidson bikes arranged like black swans swimming side-by-side and frozen in time in the parking lot, we assumed we'd be serenaded by their revved-up engines early in the morning.  And, we were not disappointed!  However, with the glorious sun just beginning to peek-out over the mountaintop to the east, we were more then ready to begin the day. 


Traditions
Most mornings consist of the partaking of a hardy breakfast at Joey's Pancake House established in 1966 by its founders, Joey and Brenda O'Keefe.  It has become the favorite breakfast stop for the locals and visitors of Maggie Valley alike.  Okay, the sweet potato pancakes are awesome and among some of the best I've ever eaten!  When in town, meet at Joey's for breakfast!  We never fail to take a picture of one of us outside at the foot of their famous sign as traffic whizzes by on Soco Road, Highway 19, just a few feet away.  Who said we were slaves to tradition?

Driving from Maggie Valley into Waynesville, a few minutes away, is like coming home for Dan and me.  Navigating Main Street is the equivalent of shrugging off your favorite coat and walking boots knowing that soon you will be bathed in the warmth of a crackling fire, feet up and facing the comfort and solidity of the heart of the home.  Here, the locals always smile and treat you as though you were an old friend.

Dan Inside Mast General Store

Parking the car in front of the Mast General Store, known for their "Quality Goods, Fair Prices & Old-fashioned Friendly Service," since 1883, of course, we went inside!  I had to pick-up some goodies to take up to our grandchildren in a few weeks for Halloween!  While choosing loose candy in the lower level of the store from old oaken barrels and placing them in tiny baskets, eventually purchased by final weight count, we were serenaded by the ancient floorboards high above our heads.  As the customers on the main floor went about their quests for that perfect woolen sweater or gift to bring back for a loved one, their many footsteps constantly marked a frantic rhythm that carried it's melodic echo down to all of us below. 

Another very special treat is walking down into The Classic Wine Seller located on Church Street and just around the corner from the Mast General Store.  Proprietors, Richard and Kay Miller, are more than happy to share their passion for wine, beer, food and live music with their guests.  To our great pleasure, since our last visit, they had opened-up the original 'wine storage' area and transformed it into a brick & oak wine bistro that would delight and challenge the most seasoned gourmand on any given day!  Now, set all of this to live music each Friday and Saturday night and.....you have a winner!

Walking back up to street level, Dan and I realized that, essentially, we had been walking down Memory Lane for the past hour or so.  Subconsciously, were we avoiding the inevitable?


Stepping Stones Into Our Future
Scooting across the street and passing the local bakery as swiftly as possible, we found ourselves standing statuesque in front of Re/Max Mountain Realty.  With heads held high and hearts in our throats....we opened the tall, glass door and entered with only minor trepidation.  Strange....  After all of the dreams, hopes and beliefs we had carried around in our hearts like stepping stones into our future, they were about to tumble and fragment into dust after nine years. 


Are you ever truly prepared for such life changing decisions?



Kaye and Dan Discussing Strategy?

"Hello," she said, and introduced herself as Kaye....Kaye Matthews.  She was a classically beautiful lady with a kind face, soft eyes and a smile as wide and charming as the state of North Carolina itself!  We had never met before that moment and, already we knew we were in strong, caring and capable hands.  Sometimes....you just know.

For the first time that weekend we were able to make the short trip we'd been avoiding up to Cansadie Top Mountain, Lot #26, Glens of Iron Duff.....our personal 'slice of heaven.'  It was beautiful!  Kaye followed us up in her car.  The air was as crisp as the very first bite of a shiny, red apple even though the sun bathed us in its golden light and plied us with its false promises of genuine warmth. 


Bear Vista Trail and Property
I do believe the three of us stayed warm due to the surrounding beauty, as well as the lively conversation, uninhibited laughter and the mutual sharing of thoughts and experiences.  Discovering our commonalities brought on more chatter......at least until our teeth were doing the very same thing!  We learned later that the overnight temperatures would bring the area's first bona fide frost.  Sitting here now, I can't help but think about how that frost assisted in encouraging the intensity of fall colors the people there must be enjoying today!

Eventually, Kaye proceeded down the mountain and home.  Dan and I lingered for a little while longer as we reflected on so many things.  This spot is where we had dreamt of seeing our grandchildren romp and play among the trees while helping Papa collect firewood; where we would enjoy our morning coffee on the front porch overlooking the valley below; where we would decorate several Christmas trees freshly cut at Boyd's Tree Farm just on the other side of Cansadie Top; where family and friends would gather for amazing meals lovingly prepared and served at our long, wooden table we had acquired several years ago just for this purpose....

Natural Beauty At Its Very Best



And, where we would grow even older together, Dan and I, while enjoying every peaceful moment of each and every day.

I have always contended that this crazy and incredulous life brings with it twists and turns you could only imagine in your wildest dreams.  It takes each and every one of us on a rocking roller coaster ride all the way to the inevitable end.  In the meantime, how you choose to ride that coaster, feeling-out each curve with dignity and grace or, rigidly bracing yourself against everything negative, is what will determine your path in this life.
 


Brulee Hughes
We did a lot of serious soul searching several weeks ago when our beloved friend and companion of fourteen years passed away.  Brûlée, our sweet Cocker Spaniel, believed and trusted in us for everything.  What he gave back to us was his friendship and unconditional love.  Since saying good-bye, we've decided to trust in our ability to believe in a realistic and solid future with family and friends around us for love and support.  As we cautiously proceed along the next turn, we are keeping a positive attitude and an open-minded approach to anything and everything.

Our journey into the future is far from settled.  However, by listing our land on Cansadie Top this past weekend, we've taken the first wobbly steps, as most children learn to do, before walking steadily on our own. 


Sunny Fern

Maybe it was the cool, crisp air or the anticipation of the riotous reds, oranges and yellows soon to pop madly across the beautiful Western North Carolina mountains but, whatever it was, it's certain that along with change enters a peaceful period of life with the fundamental truth that  new life and fresh starts are to follow.


View From Road At Bottom of Property













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