MOVING ON.....2024

A Note From The Author: Jacqueline E. Hughes

I am so happy to welcome in the new year, 2024!!! My Blog is changing-up a bit....mainly because I am evolving. Travel will always take precedence in my life and, my journeys will be shared with you. This 2024 version will offer a variety of new stories and personal ideas, as well. This is all about having fun and enjoying this Beautiful Journey called......Life!!!

Showing posts with label Acts of Love. Show all posts
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Thursday, April 20, 2023

COMPILING JOY INTO MY LIFE



A series of essays….



SLEEPING BEAUTY WITH A TWIST


….as seen through my eyes!




By: Jacqueline E Hughes



Even before moving up to Kalamazoo nearly five years ago, I had been blessed with a strong friendship with a lady by the  name of Marsha. She is a beautiful soul, a retired librarian, wife of a very talented high school friend of ours, and a grand part of the literary scene within the greater Kalamazoo area. My indoctrination into many groups, clubs, new friendships, and the amazing talent of artists of all forms and degrees is, mainly, due to Marsha. She has opened doors for me with introductions to local people who make-up this incredibly gifted atmosphere we live in here in Kalamazoo. I keep hoping to breathe it all in while promoting my own writing in the meantime.


Every other Monday afternoon, Marsha and I meet within our group of eight ladies which is entitled Voices on the Margin. Here we choose and discuss the works of a different published poet whether they be local or from all over the country. We slice and dice the work of each poet, digest their raison d’ĂȘtre, and attempt to incorporate their style, format, truths, and ideas, albeit casually, into our own work. Two weeks later, we will have written a poem loosely based on the general understanding of that poet’s work then read our poetry aloud in class to be analyzed, gently improved upon, all while offering each of us more confidence in ourselves and what we desire to achieve via our own poetic style. Simple joy!




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My sprouting plants have recently shrugged off another bout of springtime snowfall and remain robust, healthy, and strong. Soon, the invisible veil of sweetness, sugar of the gods, will waft throughout the garden sending a modicum of peace to be savored by humble humans. Varying shades of pink, purple, red, yellow, and sultry greens will intermingle with snow white blooms creating free-form artwork that promise to hang within our memories when the winter months return. That is the future. This is the present. For now, I want to gulp in the fragrances and delight in the soothing colors until pure joy lives in my heart—lasting a lifetime!



                                                 

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Several weeks ago we decided to give our Goldendoodle, Bree, a little more freedom around the house. Even though she loves sleeping in her crate at night, she loves being closer to us, as well. Plopping her super cushy bed under the bench at the foot of our bed, she comes into our room as we’re getting ready to snuggle in for the night. Crawling into her own bed, she enjoys listening to the soft piano music we play for an hour that helps to settle us into sleep mode. I love listening to her soft breathing whenever I roll over in the middle of the night and find that just by her being there, I feel comforted and more relaxed. A definite win-win situation! 


This morning, right around seven, I was thrilled by the duet that was flowing around me. Dan’s early morning softer snoring (a vast improvement from his stressful, sleepless nights of years past) had a gentle rhythm to it that left small intervals between each volleyed chorus. Within each gap there seemed to be a distant echo filling in the spaces; a repeated pattern of sound on a much smaller scale. When I realized that Bree was in concert with Dan’s rhythmic vibrations, the combined harmony was entirely too precious. How could it not make me feel blessed and place a smile on my face? Such joy…!




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Joy is putting the phone down after speaking with a close, long distance friend. Janice is someone who soothes a weary soul just by listening to her voice. When I need—no, require—a bit of calming down or an engagement in belly-rolling laughter, I know that the few spare moments Janice may have in her busy life will gladly be saved just for me. I know she feels the same about me. Even if several months fill in the gap between phone calls, our conversation resumes as if time itself holds no weight within a perfect world and a compatible friendship of over twenty years. She is the Yin to my Yang. Doesn’t everyone need a Janice in their life?




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Our fifteen-year-old granddaughter, Brenna, will soon be celebrating her sixteenth birthday in May. Yes, a right of passage will consist of passing her driving test and receiving her driver’s license. This amazing young lady is, possibly, one of the most disciplined people I know with the uncanny ability to excel in everything she is involved in. Beginning at a very early age, she has worked her way up through the grueling ranks of the gymnastic world with constant practices, learning how to place one’s body in so many unfathomable positions, and attending scheduled meets that take her all over the country!


Two weeks ago, at her final regular meet of the season, her vault, beam, uneven bars, and floor exercise were judged good enough to have her take a position at States held in Mt. Pleasant. If Brenna excelled there, she would proceed to Regionals in three week’s time to be held in Akron. Well, Ohio, here she comes! Needless to say, we are all so proud of her. The joy she brings to all who know her is complete and sincere in every way. And, if you happen to live in the Kalamazoo area, please don’t worry about this soon-to-be sixteen-year-old driving around town—she is perfectly capable of meeting all the requirements of a good driver!




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I know that in the grand scheme of things, fifty years is merely a gentle drop in the old proverbial bucket as far as history is concerned. But, when time is measured by individual memories, this length of time becomes more personal and poignant when dealing with life stories and events. This year, in September, my memoirs will include a very fulfilling fifty years of wedded bliss. Oh, come now—we all know that marriages, as blissful as they might be at times, go through ups and downs, laughter and tears, especially after such a mighty period of time. Blissful and joyful satisfaction can be the fabric that is woven between the rough patches that all marriages experience. Finding a good balance between them may be the main reason for long term happiness in any marriage. Inherent joy is the reward.




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This September will mark another significant milestone for me. I will celebrate writing about my travels, the people I have met along each journey, memories of my childhood and the family I grew up with, my impressions of a radical political scene, and about love, possibly the greatest of all human feelings and emotions. My contributions to Moving On….2013 and beyond have, for the most part, dealt with the power of love and I’ve expressed this through my prose, poetry, and short stories for the past ten years.


It is my delight and joy to share with all of you snippets of my life with the hope that, just maybe, you will be able to identify with or remember the things that happened in your own life to be recalled with fondness, perhaps a bit of sadness, but, hopefully, with love. Help me celebrate this tenth year of writing by continuing to read my stories and sharing them with others. We all desire to fill our life with joy. My joy is gathered within by hearing that even one of my stories has pierced your heart, rocked your world, or helped to make a fond memory surface from the deepest part of your being. Love and Joy to all!



Copyright © 2023 by Jacqueline E Hughes 

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Friday, March 15, 2019

COUNTING SHEEP.....COUNTING OUR BLESSINGS!



 A series of essays....


FIVE COLORFUL IRISH FRIENDS

....as seen through my eyes!






By: Jacqueline E. Hughes


Blessings are small, individual acts of love given to and received, gratefully, by those who believe that these favors are gifts bestowed by God bringing happiness, approval, or good wishes upon them. Even small blessings are seen as benefits and advantages within this topsy-turvy world we live in and we become most thankful for them as we sift through the alternate possibilities. Having very little money can be seen as a blessing if it, at the very least, provides enough food on the table for survival.

Blessings often come in disguise as if they were guests at a masked ball, identities denied, yet distinguishable by their ultimate good effects. Initially, a ‘blessing in disguise’ might be misconstrued as being negative but, in actuality, the outcome shifts from initial fear to something we might become eternally grateful for. The idea of solemn circumstances such as running late for work or losing a current job....might initiate a more interesting or profitable new position in the future.

The soothing words of the talented lyricist, Irving Berlin, would have us all “counting our blessings instead of sheep!” And, we may ask ourselves...why not?...when all is right with the world while falling asleep counting our blessings instead of our worries. Beating the odds by surviving what could have been a tragedy and having us realize our good fortune is grounds for counting our blessings! When the consequences of our hard work and planning fall short of our expectations, it is important to take note of other incredible things that have happened to us. This idea may just be the most important antidote to sadness the world has ever known!

Early explorers of our vast world, fearful of the unknown, would seek the blessings of their King, Queen, or a high ranking member of the clergy who would invoke a higher power for assistance, support, and inspiration before beginning a long journey by land or sea.

Beauty can be a mixed blessing. The attention received by a person of renowned physical beauty may only be a superficial blessing if others are less likely to take them seriously. We humans are often caught-up somewhere between that which is favorable and sailing adrift upon a sea dotted by active mines....disadvantageous features that we must learn to navigate around in order to survive. Many scientists have proclaimed that discovering the  power of the atom was a mixed blessing. Even as it opened our world to the positive aspects of nuclear power, it made nuclear weapons possible.

We incorporate innumerable blessings into our lives every day, whether we choose to recognize them as such or not. They may be in the form of a short prayer of thanksgiving recited before a meal; enjoying the blessings of peace and prosperity; the devout invocation of blessedness bestowed upon us by a priest during the benediction of a mass; the loving permission to go, proceed, or carry-on in full agreement with the ideas of another person or group of people, as well as being touched by the help or services offered to us by the kindness or good fortunes of others.

As grandparents, we consider our grandchildren to be among our greatest blessings of all! When we are able to travel and explore other lands along with their people and cultures, we are blessed by our newly attained knowledge and may choose to share this knowledge with others upon returning home. Recognizing our own personal talent and being able to utilize it in order to assist, delight, or offer a brighter life to someone else is a blessing we should all strive to achieve. And, having good friends to share everything with is a monumental gift that should never be taken lightly and will be a blessing for life!!

“Good friends are like angels. ~ You don’t have to see them to know they are there.”

At this time of year, may we recall the power and humor of the Irish Blessing and Curse. There are so many to choose from but, here is a sampling:




























































































The blessings and good wishes bestowed upon us through the kindness of others should be cherished and returned in favor to all who require them. When we are blessed enough to be able to understand our own bounty and good fortune and capable of sharing it with those experiencing misfortune, we will then have attained the full benefits of having truly lived a blessed life. 

Happy Saint Patrick’s Day! May the bountiful miracles of springtime bless us all with as much warmth and joy required to fill our hearts to the brim after such a long, cold winter.  “May the Irish hills caress you. May her lakes and rivers bless you. May the luck of the Irish enfold you. May the blessings of Saint Patrick behold you.” Irish Blessing...


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